Waqt yeh bhi guzar Jayega!

Sometimes we are tossed in every best possible way and all the small things out of proportion turns into big, forging us to deal an out of place crisis situation.

Life has it's own way of grilling us, sometimes your dear ones are envious of you, other day  an outsider offends you, slapping us with traumatic events which saps us, knocking down our self-esteem disastrously merely by words, ramping down our self-respect to an extent that we start considering ourselves as good for nothing creatures.

Bad times which gets prolonged to form a bad phase as an attribute of breaking us from the core and wiping out our emotions. Each of us face that particular period of our life when we struggle to meet our both ends, people mocking us on  personal and professional fronts, back stabbing us to diminish our existence, piping up venomous arrows to hurt us, probing us to bend down to feed their ego, crumbling our strengths to make us crippled, adding spices into awful talks to smash us down.

At this stage of our life we need to have an only one thought to lit up our flames i.e. ' सब्र कर बंदेया,जब वो दिन नहीं रहे तो ये दिन भी निकल जाएंगे!
वक़्त ये भी गुज़र जाएगा!😊 '

Effective One

In the walk of life you will come across many faces, some will affect you and some will leave an effect on you.

Shift of focus should be on the effective ones because they will take you on a ride of self-assessment, what you actually desire ,what you are eagerly looking for.

There will always be someone that one beloved person in our life who elates us, someone who magnifies our happiness, someone for whom we travel miles just to sip a coffee, someone whose touch enthralls us, someone who brings out an ambitious version of us, someone who empower us to the core, someone who is the spring of our seasons, someone for whom we willingly bow down, someone who is an only cure for our wounds, someone whose thoughts rules our mind, someone who is an epicenter of our world.

If we have someone alike, just don't let them go, bet your bottom dollar for that person, pursue to live an entire life with them, fight to the death for that one prodigious person.

And last but not the least for the people who ' affects ' you , breathe in ,wear a captivating smile and just loudly shout out ' Fly off ' to them 😉.

It's You only You!

Sitting at my workstation was listening to a meaningful conversation of my colleagues about karma and existence of God. Their views probed  me to take a dive into this and pen down my fluid thoughts.

Over social media lots of post flows in daily on karma and it's trait but does everybody have an exact answer to this?

Not commenting particularly on anyone's prospective ,I genuinely believe in one thought which I have ingrained in depth of my heart and soul is 'Tattvam Asi'.

You are the one! The self in its pure, original and pridominal form.
The logic behind karma is simple it is solely based on you ,how you act and react in your life. Metaphorically for some people drinking defines a person as malicious whereas for someone it is a way of de-stressing. There is no concept of right and wrong the only concept is how you feel about it.

Universe can divert you, your close ones can lie ,your mind can digress you but the voice of your heart will never place you in nasty situations.

Chase out hard, strive with zeal, bash out all the hurdles if you feel to have it in your life. Remember God never judges it's us who get into this Shit of judgment and assessment.

One should be virtuous in his own eyes rest everything will eventually fall at place🙂.

Hold your horses!

In life it's not easy to keep your mind and heart in sync, former goes left latter goes right. Foolishly we consider ourself as victim in every situation, completely ignoring the fact that it's all because of our actions and reactions.

There would be many instances when your emotions takes charge upon you, certainly placing you on cloud nine for momentary pleasures, Spiking hormonal level , blindly driving you to climb the short ladder of success, hallucinating to live in an illusion for an instance.

Apparantly what should come immediately is a thought to ponder and that thought is 'What after this?'. In weak moments of life when we slip down to attain glee by spontaneous avenues we get slapped back badly down in our conscience, that one single act trouble us to get a sound sleep, killing us bit by bit with guilt trip.

Niether there are any set of rules to follow nor any kind of escape mechanism to rub off indentations of our highs.One can surely elate by listening to inner voice and that comes with lots and lots of prerequisite and paramount is to 'Listen your heart'. Heart is in left but surely it's always right ,right enough to held you elevated in your eyes.

Trust me, it's fine!

It's hard to let go things which once had a soft spot in your heart.
Heart aches make you hold on your emotions with a hope of reconcile, taking you away from reality and placing you in an imaginary world of thoughts.

Leaving you with trashes of self pity all around, turning your apprehension into toxic notions, depreciating your charm over a period of time, mortifying your own credibility, sulking your soul with remorse.

It's perfectly fine to crib about everything, it's fine to see demon in everyone , it's just fine to size up , it's fine to cut off from world, it's fine to keep grudges but what matters is 'how long?'.

The only medicine which works is Acceptance. Withstand what is infront of you, don't let the fire inside burn you, don't close the doors for opportunities knocking at you, don't shredd benevolence for people standing with you in peaks and valleys.

Life and it's shots become more promising and appealing when we deal with broken pieces, it gleam us to an inner core. Trust me it works and leads us to pinnacle of happiness! 🙂

The Art of not Sulking.

When life tests you by throwing you in an emotional, financial or physical wall of death ,making you to breakdown, giving you chills , in short slapping you with bad times.

Sometimes we belittle and demean oneself just to stabilise life perhaps ending up with insanity.

The art of not Sulking is simple yet difficult to accept. Ponder that it's just a phase , merely a matter of time.

Remember as they say,"Change is the only constant!", Time will change,your life will blossom, tears will turn up into giggles , scarcity will convert into prosperity that too in one stroke.

Neither wait nor chase anything or anybody, expectation is to keep going with determination , sparkle your soul with zeal , sprinkle your heart with love, dip your mind into ocean of knowledge.

Sow this seed of not Sulking deep inside you and surely you will come up with flying colours in your life😊😊.

Trust the one who created us!

I don't understand why we always end up being with people who want us with clauses as if we are good to deal only for specific reasons or occasion.

No matter how much you apologize when you didn't do anything wrong ,no matter how many oceans you cross for them perhaps at the end you will be showcased as the one who isn't mature enough as per the current trends.

Give them your piece of heart and soul and they will turn you into ashes, still you keep them in your life hoping to reconcile even at cost of your self respect.

In whole process of treasuring a relationship with a person who doesn't put a single effort to bring it on the table, You kill yourself completely, You get bruises which can never be healed and the worst part is you realise all this when it's too late to even regret.

Chuck out negativity in which ever form it is, You are the one who is the sole owner of your life, You have fire inside you don't let it burn you.

God has created you in his own image,trust him ,trust his decision, He has a purpose of sending you in this Universe you just have to hold your horses 😊😊